I
met Lenny in Office Depot several weeks ago (2000) while testing different notebook
computers. The previous two days had been dedicated to searching the web,
learning everything there was to know about laptop computers. What could
I get for under $2000.00? What were the best features, screen types, brand
names? What did other people have to say about their experiences?
As
I walked onto the computer aisle, I overheard a man in his early
50s talking to an Office Depot employee about which type of notebook computer
to purchase. The employee acknowledged me with a swift hello and continued
to answer the customer's questions. Still, a look of confusion blanketed
the man's face.
"I've
never had or used a computer before, so I want the best. What features
do I need?" said the man in a discernable New York accent. I chimed
in, "You want at least a 13 inch, TFT monitor, so you can see it
from both directions. Don't get anything less than a six gigabyte hard
drive and 64 megs of memory. If you can afford it, don't settle for anything
less than a 600 MHZ processor, an internal CD drive or DVD drive and an
extra lithium ion battery."
The
employee shook his head in agreement and smiled, welcoming me into the
conversation. The gentlemen turned to me -- echoing the employee's smile,
and held out his hand to offer a weak handshake. "Thank you very
much, I'm Lenny Shaw." I introduced myself and offered a few more
dos and don'ts for purchasing a laptop computer.
Lenny,
whom I now noticed use a cane and wore some type of wired electric box
on the waist of his pants, asked if I would help him pick out the best
laptop that Office Depot offered. In amusement (amazing things can happen
when money is no object) I agreed and followed Lenny and the employee
to the Compaq, build your-own-notebook computer station. DVD, Re-writeable
CD, 128mb, 800MHZ Pentium III, 15.1 inch TFT screen, all the latest software,
Genuine leather carrying cases, extra batteries, 3 year service plans
... the options went on and on. At around $4000.00 Lenny and I had created
a beautiful package.
"I
envy you," I said with a smile "that's going to be a dream machine."
Lenny just turned to me, looked me in the eyes and said, "Don't envy
me. You don't know what I had to go through to be able to afford this."
Lenny
wanted to talk and suggested we find a seat in the office furniture section
since standing for long periods made him prone to blackouts. I compromised
by finding a seat in the clearance section at the front of the store.
Over the next hour, I listened and listened as Lenny proceeded to tell
me his life story and his dreams of owning a radio station. Here, in a
much condensed version, is a synopsis of Lenny's life
In
the late 70s, Lenny was taken hostage during a robbery at a bank in New
York. Shots were fired and one of the bullets found their way into Lenny,
puncturing a lung, grazing two vertebras, leaving him physically paralyzed
and mentally debilitated. The doctors said Lenny would never walk again.
But he did. After years of rigorous therapy and sheer will power, Lenny
defied the odds and regained use of his legs and arms. In the meantime,
lawsuits were filed against the bank for negligence (they hired off-duty,
gun-carrying police officers to work as tellers to avoid the additional
costs of security).
After years of court battles and virtual wars between
different law firms, Lenny was awarded 1.7 million dollars for damages.
His case set a legal precedence and Lenny earned a footnote in legal textbooks.
Little compensation for a life of pain, mega-doses of Valium and the daily
challenges of living with physical and mental disabilities.
After
standing for an hour while he sat and talked and talked, I politely let
Lenny know I had to go. Before I left. though, he pulled out a yellowed
ad from a 1998 catalog featuring calculators. "Brian," said
Lenny, "Will you help me find a calculator?"
I
took the catalog from his hands, asked an employee where the calculators
were and walked with Lenny. There it was. A $19.97 Casio Solar Calculator
designed especially to equate bonds and mutual funds -- precisely want
Lenny wanted. I showed Lenny his other options. Lenny smiled victoriously
and looked up to the ceiling whispering. "Thank you, God. Thank you
God for sending Brian to help me today." I wished Lenny well. He
asked if he could call me if he needed more help with computers.
"Of
course," I said and gave him my number.
"You'd
really do that for me?" he said
"Yes,
I would and I will" I responded. As I walked away, Lenny offered
to pay for my laptop, (too which I humbly declined) for my help and time
that evening. Lenny had already given me some timeless gifts of reminders
and lessons.
Lessons
learned, I didn't spend two days learning about laptops for me. EVERYTHING
has a cosmic purpose behind it The universe needed me to show Lenny everything
he needed to know about laptops before plopping down three grand. The
universe decided that I should also be the one to help him locate a Solar
Casio for bonds and mutual funds.
That's
why my colleague, Allison Blankenship, told me about her affiliation with
National Seminars Group six months ago. That's why Micki Holliday (National's
curriculum director) called when she did to see if I was interested in
teaching a seminar on Designing for the Web in California, and why I had
to finally learn about the best laptops (I purchased a Toshiba Satellite
1650 in the end).
And
yes, that's why I had to go to Office Depot -- that evening ... because
that's where Lenny would be.
Lenny
needed someone to talk to that evening, and I needed, for once, to just
shut up and be the listener. Because I needed to be reminded that wealth
often comes with a price. Lenny's story taught me that if you aren't willing
to pay up when you get what you've always wanted, then stop wishing for
it.
Finally,
you are reading this article for a reason. Wherever you are right now,
whatever you're going through, good, bad, personally or professionally,
know that you matter and that you too are here for a reason. Whether you
fulfill that purpose in the next five minutes or five days with a hug,
a patient ear, a phone call or email, never lose sight of the impact you
have on the people around you -- and vice versa. Know too that your product
or service, message, experience and expertise is touching others every
moment that you breathe. These components are extensions of you.
Ultimately,
you are here to be someone's light, someone's solution, and someone is
here to be yours. After all, the world is full of Lennys and the universe
works in peculiar ways.
Brian Norris is a professional speaker and author of Escape Life Sucks Syndrome. He helps individuals to live with passion and positivity. He helps companies to improve morale, lead better and market their products and services more dynamically. You can reach Brian by emailing info@BrianNorris.com.